Post by victorgrant on Feb 28, 2018 8:30:28 GMT
Hi,
I've had relationships earlier in life, from ages 14 to 18, but I've been single for 2 years now for various reasons I'll state in this post. Recently, I have gained much desire to have companionship with woman. Emotionally I feel that I'm now most acclimated to engage in partnership. The problem is, I feel like no one's good enough for me.
It sounds so egotistical to say that, but the qualities I seek in the opposite sex are sparse, to say the least. I used to be so discriminate with this that if the person wasn't scientifically or philosophically literate than I'd immediately discard them. Now I've changed and realized what's more important is development of self (improving personal condition, developing kindness, expressing creativity, art, ect) but these are probably even rarer qualities. In my experience most people don't consciously rewrite themselves, experiences happen to them that force them to, or even in some cases they block it out completely. Those who have a deeper understanding of, and love for, existence are in a very small percent tile. That is not a subjective statement. Daily life interactions shows us this again and again, and anyone on this forum will know.
So why do I feel the need to point all this out? Am I just trying to feel superior? No, not at all. I try to be kind to all people, and I'm not holding it against anyone, but it's just a fact that's unavoidable. I have no interest in entering a relationship with a woman that isn't what I'm looking for, the kind I've been describing, which are hugely rare people to begin with. People of similar quality spend time with each other and have closer bonds.
I don't know if I'll find someone like me. I don't know what to do about it, but I feel now is the time to address the problem before it's too late. One idea I could try is to just try out someone who I think I wouldn't like, and maybe I'll end up learning or realizing something. I've had two of those encounters and I actually did learn something, that I could never be happy with those who are culturally conditioned and have lost all resemblance of a healthy, active soul.
I don't believe waiting for someone to come on my doorstep in a option.
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I've had relationships earlier in life, from ages 14 to 18, but I've been single for 2 years now for various reasons I'll state in this post. Recently, I have gained much desire to have companionship with woman. Emotionally I feel that I'm now most acclimated to engage in partnership. The problem is, I feel like no one's good enough for me.
It sounds so egotistical to say that, but the qualities I seek in the opposite sex are sparse, to say the least. I used to be so discriminate with this that if the person wasn't scientifically or philosophically literate than I'd immediately discard them. Now I've changed and realized what's more important is development of self (improving personal condition, developing kindness, expressing creativity, art, ect) but these are probably even rarer qualities. In my experience most people don't consciously rewrite themselves, experiences happen to them that force them to, or even in some cases they block it out completely. Those who have a deeper understanding of, and love for, existence are in a very small percent tile. That is not a subjective statement. Daily life interactions shows us this again and again, and anyone on this forum will know.
So why do I feel the need to point all this out? Am I just trying to feel superior? No, not at all. I try to be kind to all people, and I'm not holding it against anyone, but it's just a fact that's unavoidable. I have no interest in entering a relationship with a woman that isn't what I'm looking for, the kind I've been describing, which are hugely rare people to begin with. People of similar quality spend time with each other and have closer bonds.
I don't know if I'll find someone like me. I don't know what to do about it, but I feel now is the time to address the problem before it's too late. One idea I could try is to just try out someone who I think I wouldn't like, and maybe I'll end up learning or realizing something. I've had two of those encounters and I actually did learn something, that I could never be happy with those who are culturally conditioned and have lost all resemblance of a healthy, active soul.
I don't believe waiting for someone to come on my doorstep in a option.
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Medical Device Marketing Examples
